As humans, we are innately social creatures and slowly perish if isolated. We are also adaptable and can substitute all sorts of interesting things for normal companionship. This has resulted in some extreme behaviors over human history. Some call them kinks, fetishes, or quirks. These have provided frustration, entertainment, and danger since the beginning of our species. As individuals we have variations, but the basic drives are the same.

Let's discuss love. The word "love" has been beaten to death in the English language. We typically use this one word to mean too many things. For our current purposes, let us consider "love" the essence of sharing with others, whether it is physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual.

Share what you have to offer and accept that which is willingly offered by others. Gifts are only traps if you accept the burden of hidden agendas. It doesn't need to be complicated. We all obey the same universal laws, like it or not.

We seek validation and pleasure. Sex is the most obvious and direct route to pleasure, but it's a subject laced with taboos and restrictions along with very real dangers of disease, unwanted pregnancy, and violence based on jealousy. Many organizations have profited by diverting healthy sexual behavior into their agendas, seeking the ultimate control. The reproductive drive is too strong to resist regardless of these issues.

There's no guarantee that you can be validated by any specific person, but you can enhance your experience with other people by validating yourself. Otherwise, you are enslaved to the need for approval by others.

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